I’ve noticed that some people tend to insanely believe that those who are bi are confused. And it’s really an immature thought that needs further developing, if they think about it. Because it’s real simple. There is no confusion in attraction. The confusion only lies in one’s level of understanding. But attraction is clear and precise.

Now I may be bi, but don’t get it twisted. I’m nowhere near confused nor bi-curious (whatever the hell that’s supposed to mean). I’m very clear that I’m attracted to BOTH genders. How the hell can you NOT be? Enlighten me. Please. But you make sure you do your homework before you turn it into me. I’m serious. So for you studs and the rest that only swing one way, if Attraction isn’t confused nor myself confused, then who’s confused? It’s a simple math problem with a simple answer: YOU. And it’s you, all due to your level of understanding and your prejudice ways that aren’t any different than a racist and a sexist. Damn right I said! And I’ll say it again:

You aren’t any different from a bigot, racist and a sexist discriminating against someone just and only because of their gender. How low is that!

Fuck trying to get to know the person FIRST before you make a judgment call. Naw, fuck that! Why would you do that?! Oh heaven’s no. I could never do that. That’s sarcasm, in case it went over your head. Oh, you didn’t look at it that way, you being like that of a bigot, huh? Well it is what it is but you can change that mindset because why do you really have it anyway? Is it doing you any good? Any greatness? Any excellence? Does it make you happy? Does it put you in a everlasting state of bliss? Does it make you smile every day? Does it make you feel great to be alive? Does it make you think happy and loving thoughts? Does it do any real good for you to be that of a bigot? Well, if that floats your raft (that’s right, raft), then so be it. But you’ll be floating in a sea of confusion and prejudice all by yourself or with a clan of others just like you. And eventually that raft will begin to sink and all of you bigots, racists and sexists will drown together and wonder, like some dumbass, “Whatever happened to cause the raft to break?” And you will continue to blame us who are bi for your miserable lives only wishing you could be as open-minded, broad-minded and free as expansion, development and growth can get - and that’s infinitely.

But you whine and complain about not finding “the one”. Stop fearing a gender different from yours, let alone your own. Not all men are alike. Not all women are alike, either. That’s like a “white” person scared to date a “black” person just because of the color of their skin or vice versa; never making a single attempt to get acquainted because they are so damn fearful of one’s skin color. Yea, you thought racists were terrible people but you aren’t doing anything different than they are with the gender thing. Mmhmm. That’s right, honey. I’m opening up your eyes, aren’t I?! Good! Broaden your horizons and maybe just maybe you’ll get closer to “the one” for you in the moment and period of time in your life that you’re in. But even if you don’t encounter that person out of the millions and millions of people in this world, it’s great to be free. Now if you feel your soul is doomed to hell or something, then that’s between you and Your Maker and what you feel you hear from All That Is/God/Goddess/Spirit etc.

But I’m crystal clear and so is Attraction. Precise and on point. But that doesn’t mean you can’t get clear. Especially when I just laid it out for you. And I had a discriminative mindset in my younger days. I got along with all colors of people. But I’d only allow myself to be in a relationship with those who were brown skinned like me or lighter or darker. I only allowed myself to see males until a female made a pass at me. And even after that, males had my attention because it was they who showed clear interest in me more than a female. There was only one female back then who showed interest in me. Male interest outweighed the one female interest. And then religious people and views ended up doing its best to lock in a bigot mindset in me. What happened to it all? I grew up. It’s called maturity - something this post should help you gain.

So lesbians, please don’t be mad that I love men just as I do women. They’re attractive! “Straight” people who have been programmed by themselves or others to put up a mental block to their own “race,” oops I mean their own gender, please don’t be mad that I love my same gender (females). Females are attractive, too. You, straight males know that because you’re attracted to us females, too. And you straight females know females are attractive because I bet you find yourself attractive. You know, so stop faking the funk! Why does it shock you or confuse you when you meet someone who goes both ways?!

Last time I checked, attraction goes both ways. It doesn’t stop the flow when it sees gender no more it does the color of one’s skin. Oh, that’s right you blinded yourself of that Truth. The only one stopping that flow, is YOU. Yet, another Truth you’ve so strategically have blinded yourself of. But attraction is free of prejudice just as love is. Attraction is REALLY simple to understand, IF YOU WANT TO UNDERSTAND IT. But Attraction is going to be Attraction whether you understand it and accept or not. Just as Love will do the same. Your loss.

You can read about how I arrived by going here or here, because like you I used to be confused too in my “straight” views before I opened up to both genders. My excuse though was religious views at the time until I actually took the time to think about what people say is right and wrong and see what made sense and what didn’t; challenging the “common belief.” And the common belief is full of holes. Don’t have to take my word for it. Just see for yourself if you’re brave and crazy enough to be the real deal.

Why anyone chooses to “hate” on any gender like they do the color of someone’s skin or one’s age or any other discriminative factor is odd because we’re all of the same race: HUMAN — with personalities.

Maybe you’re stereotyping; have some sort of prejudice. I don’t know. But that’s your issue that you need to untangle since apparently my being bi is giving you insomnia. And you just can’t reach your goals in life because I’m bi or because there are other people in this world who are bi. We just give you such a migraine that you can’t focus, you have a hard time completing simple and mundane things - just our existence has you mentally retarded and physically paralyzed. Just our presence makes you lose your appetite. All because you can’t get passed your prejudice over something petty and immaturely insane so much so you’ll find yourself in an institute, moving like crazy to get free from that strait-jacket (pun intended). When are you going to grow up? When are you going to start living your life instead of handing over the strings to people who don’t give a rat’s ass what you think? When are you going to retire from being our puppet? Yea, yea, yea… yea, yea. You can deny it. Won’t make any difference to me. But do you, just take your rift and float your raft away from me. Come back when you’re clear if my basic and elementary statements didn’t straighten out your confusion.

Be breezy.

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