I started out taking Tickle tests for the fun of it. And then while on a self-developmental path I decided to take assessments of myself; testing to see just how accurate those things are. So I figured personal sites (where folks are looking for mates) would without a doubt have such detailed assessments at no cost to me. Of course, they offer an even more in-depth assessment of their “brief” one but the “brief” one was good enough for me. I went to a few sites and happened to save the one from eHarmony. You will see my … strengths and my weaknesses. And yes I’m aware of the pros and cons in showing you and others this information but it’s fine with me. Trust me, I know what I’m doing. I cannot say that the report is 100% accurate but over 95% of it is. UPDATE…

Actually, after re-reading the results I’d have to say it is right on the money 100% and honestly I wouldn’t change a thing. Wait I’d have to say 99.99% accurate because in my view I’m more reserved then outgoing versus just being flat out outgoing. That’s my view though. eHarmony says I’m outgoing and my sister seems to think so, too. Reserved and then outgoing is me. So I’ll leave it at that: 99.99% accurate. hehe. I love who I’ve come to be and who I am. Some will like it in me and some won’t. Can’t sit around spending time focusing on those who won’t. I’m not here to satisfy everyone let alone anyone. haha. What good would it do me? So I surround myself around people who can get along with my character that which makes me … ME. And those who can’t, who feel it is too much for them well good-bye. However, you’re always welcome in my world if you’re bold enough. hehe. Naw I’m playing. But, IF you feel you can stand the winds of my vibes then by all means, come and dance. . But make no mistake, I am not the gossiping type of which you’d learn very quickly about me. I’ll gladly share my own business and things connected to me but that which another has told me in confidence about their life and someone else (and not open forum), I will not share with others. Mm-K!

So way to go eHarmony for creating an assessment that’s really accurate. I am impressed with the assessment given by eHarmony. Very impressed. Basically, the more honest you are when doing these type of tests, the more accurate it can be in the results. Even with the questions you think you know why it’s asking you the question and you think it’s going to conclude a specific thing that you don’t agree with so you choose another answer that goes in favor of a more favorable answer you like … refrain from doing that. And since you have no way of knowing how the results will curve you might as well just be honest with yourself to get the most accurate results possible. Ok?

Well I took the assessment which took a good hour to complete; being completely honest. And my results are in 5 parts, of which I’ll put on separate posts so you won’t be scrolling for days. Click on either to read what eHarmony has to say about the type of person I am.

>> Agreeableness: Taking care of others or Taking care of yourself?
>> Openness: Curious or Contented?
>> Emotional Stability: Steady or Responsive?
>> Conscientiousness: Focused or Flexible?
>> Extroversion: Outgoing or Reserved?

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